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10 Bewitchingly Sexy Tips on How to Impress a Guy …

How to Impress a guy? There are so many ways, and for every guy, these things could be a little different. But there are a few things that are almost guaranteed to impress a guy, any guy. These are just a few of them, ones that I’ve had loads of success with, but feel free to use these as a springboard to get your own creative ideas. Without further ado, here they are, 10 tips on how to impress a guy.

1. Be honest

Simply put, men don’t like liars, so if you’re wondering how to impress a guy, start with being honest. Don’t ever pretend to be something you’re not, or like something you don’t.

2. Be confident

Guys like women who are confident, but not arrogant; convinced of their own worth, but not conceited. While this may seem like a fine line to walk, it’s not, and confidence is a trait guy often find attractive.

3. Be yourself!

Just like being honest will Impress a guy, being yourself, not putting on little acts, will make him happy, too. Who wants to date a phony, or find out later that the girl they’ve been dating isn’t who he thought she was?

4. Be secure in the bedroom

You’re an adult. You know what you want in life, from a companion, and especially in the bedroom. Men aren’t mind-readers any more than we are, so why waste his time and yours with guesswork between the sheets?

5. Show your hidden talents

If you can sing, sing! If you know Spanish, order your meal from Mexican Town in Spanish! If you can dance, shake your booty! Impress your man with your unique, hidden talent. He’ll be pleasantly surprised and you’ll get a chance to show off a little.

6. Keep financially stable

No-one wants to be burdened with someone else’s financial irresponsibility, so impress your guy, and save yourself a lot of undue stress by keeping your financial ducks in a tidy row.

7. Ditch the frenemies

This is one bit of drama men don’t understand, and certainly don’t like. If you have a frenemy, now’s the time to ditch the bitch and impress your guy.

8. Don’t be clingy

There’s nothing wrong with showing your love and affection, but guys don’t like girls who are overly clingy. It screams of insecurity, something no-one but emotional predators find attractive.

9. Know a little about cars

I’m not sure what it is with guys and their cars, but if you’re still wondering how to Impress a guy, go for broke and educate yourself a little about cars, in particular, his favorite cars. Or if he’s into racing, or classic cars, show an interest in that, too. Don’t force yourself though. If you’re just not interested, he’ll be able to tell, and it won’t impress him — he’ll find it annoying.

10. Know a little about sports

If there’s a sport you happen to love to watch or play, let your guy know! Chances are, he’ll think it’s incredibly SEXY (especially if you wear a cute jersey to support your team) and it’s sure to impress him!
My dears, I’ve tried every single one of these tips on how to impress a guy, and they all work with every kind of guy, the sports fans and the librarians alike. Which of these tips do you think you’ll try, and which are already in your own repertoire? Or do you have another tip to share? Please let me know!

Why Do Men Get Bored In Relationships?

Do men get bored in relationships? Of course, they do. Anyone would, given the decision is made after rational thinking. Everybody, at least once in their lives, comes to a fork in their lives where they seem to require something more than a girlfriend or boyfriend, wife or husband. Relationships lose the excitement and charm it had in the beginning, and nothing seems to work out like it used to. Before, even the slightest touch from her fingers would attract you to her. The sweet smell emitting from her flowing locks mesmerized you beyond belief. And the passion in your kisses were too hot for you to handle. But these days, that intense connection and the need to be with her every single second has somehow disappeared. How can someone go from being obsessively involved with someone, waking up the next day and finding the relationship plain boring? No guy would just decide to lose interest in the girl he’s with. What can be the reason behind this detachment?
Many a time, whenever something goes wrong in a relationship, both partners try to find reasons behind getting distant from one another. Every relationship has its own ups and downs where partners have to face challenges; hearts get broken, trust is shattered, and ill words are exchanged. Which is why, for every bump in the road, there is a valid reason behind it. So what can be the reason for a guy to become bored with his own girlfriend? Why do men get bored when in certain relationships? Are there any concrete reasons or just irrational and immature thinking is at play? Let’s find out.
It’s not women (girlfriends or wives) they get bored of. What is missing in their lives is the feeling of excitement, spontaneity, thrill, passion, and perhaps romance. Some men thrive over the constant need to find something new that will satisfy them emotionally and physically. In this case, from their current and/or future partners. When all these things run their course, the exhilaration fizzles down. In the following section, there are few common instances/reasons, which can lead to lack of interest in a relationship for a guy.
He said – She was too easy to have. I need a challenge from a girl…
Some guys like girls who are hard to get. I guess it’s some kind of notion they have in their minds that hard-to-get girls are much more exciting to be with. Whether this thinking is true or false, if a guy has such thoughts brewing in his mind, it could lead to dissatisfaction and boredom in any relationship.
He said – I cannot take her nagging at me all the time…
All men like to stay away from women who have the tendency to nag a lot. In the beginning of the relationship, some women try to show their outgoing, carefree nature. However, if they incline towards being a controlling person, soon they end up expressing it out loud. The problem arises from frustration, it moves on to irritation, and then it quickly turns into wanting to be as far away from the person as possible.
He said – She doesn’t want to be my girlfriend. She wants to be my WIFE…
I’ll admit it. Most women think of marriage and babies after first few dates with a guy. This can lead a couple towards serious issues. I’m not trying to say that guys don’t think about marriage, but they take their time in coming at this phase in their lives. Whether it’s a man or a woman, marriage or any other serious commitment can’t be forced upon them.
He said – Making love to her isn’t as exciting as it used to be…
This is one of those reasons where every couple can have their own set of issues. What I mean to say here is that each individual has his/her own physical needs and it becomes important for them to fulfill those needs. Discontent and frustration can loom over any couple if these needs aren’t met.
He said – I need my space and I need it right now…
Getting intimate and too serious in a relationship can be bad for anyone. It’s natural when you feel that you wish to be with the one you love all the time, but distance is also crucial. Giving each other space so that you can miss the other person is the key to wanting to be with them. If you keep eating a particular ice cream flavor all the time and it’s accessible to you 24/7, would you be interested in eating it the next time?
He said – She won’t let me have my own life and friends…
This sort of overlaps with “I want my own space” reason. Giving a man (and woman) his own space and having your own personal, separate life is healthy for any couple. When a man sees that a woman doesn’t require anyone to take care of her all the time, they develop a sense of respect for her. This respect is very important for a woman as the feeling also turns into intrigue and wanting to be with her even more.
There are times when some of these reasons take shape into a man cheating on his girlfriend. The key here is to spice up your love life and actually enjoy the time the two of you share with one another. Changing either one of you won’t do anyone any good. Be yourselves, keep all the cards on the table, and then decide whether the relationship is worth pursuing or not.

7 Ways to Attract a Guy …

How to Attract a guy using your body and non-verbal cues isn’t easy, is it girls! It’s not impossible though. Below, I’m going to teach you the ins and outs of how to attract a guy without using your voice, instead by using your personality. Personality s huge girls and it’s one of the first things that guys notice about a girl. You could be extremely pretty, but if you don’t have the right personality to fit with his, he won’t take a second look. So ladies, are you ready to learn how to attract a guy without using your voice?

1. Self Confidence

I swear, this is the biggest one that a lot of us girls lack. You’re beautiful, no matter what and you should be confident in it. self confidence is definitely one of the key tips on learning how to attract a guy. So stay confident and strong and I swear, he’ll be attracted without you ever saying anything to him!

2. Soft Touches

When you’re a girl, it’s all about the touching. So why not lay a few little touches on the guy you’re trying to attract? Just a small brush against his shoulder, maybe you accidentally brush against him. Whatever the case, soft touching can make all of the difference in the world and is one of the surefire ways of how to attract a guy easily and without using your words!

3. Dress Up

Whenever possible, you want to use your clothes as an extension of you. I’m not saying dress slutty girls, but if you dress to impress, I promise that you’ll attract a ton of guys! So get out that lbd and pair it with some kick butt stilettos!

4. Positivity

Guys like a girl that’s positive, not a girl that is constantly down in the dumps. One of the surefire ways on how to attract a guy is to simply be positive! You always want to emit that positivity vibe whenever possible, it’ll make all of the difference!

5. Flirty Body Language

Cock your hip, brush your hair back, wink a little – all of these things are totally flirty and a great way to learn how how to attract a guy! I know that when I’m looking to attract a guy, I make sure that I keep up coy little glimpses, it’s a great way to start a conversation and you can definitely attract a guy like that. So use your body!

6. Eye Contact

When you’re using non-verbal cues on how to attract a guy, eye contact is so important! You can occasionally catch his eyes or do some coy little glances, like I mentioned above. Your eyes are definitely important when you’re trying to attract a guy!

7. Wits

This is where you can finally start to use your voice ladies. Learning how to attract a guy is hard sometimes, but guys like it when a girl has wits and knows how to use ‘em. So get out that sarcastic self!
Learning the ins and outs of how to attract a guy is hard when you first start out! Ladies, if you follow these how to attract a guy tips, I promise you’ll have to beat the guys off of you! What tips and tricks have you used in the past? Any advice to someone who’s knew at the attraction game? Come on, share your advice here!

10 Things Men Say When They Cheat…

We don’t want it to be true, but sometimes men cheat and the first thing you shouldn’t do is blame yourself. Relationships can be difficult at times, but it is never a reason to Cheat on the person you love. So what are the signs to look for of a cheating man, are there certain things that men say or do when they cheat? Relationship coach Marcelina Hardy is guest blogging with us today to help us look for those cheating signs and to share 10 Things Men Say When They Cheat…

If you’ve been in a cheating relationship or wonder if you are in one, you may have heard your man say the following things. It’s amazing how many Men say the same exact phrases, as if they read a book on what to say when cheating.

1. She’s just a friend…

You discover he’s been talking to someone new, who is a female. He hasn’t said anything to you about her before you finding out about her and when you ask him if you can meet her, he objects. It’s because she’s really not a friend, she’s a girlfriend.

2. Respect my privacy. Don’t touch my phone…

He doesn’t want you to touch his phone for fear that you will either see text messages from her or that she will send one just as you pick it up. He may even have pictures of her on his phone.

3. You are cheating on me, aren’t you?

Yes, men who cheat will accuse their partner of cheating. Why? It’s because they start to think, “Well, if I can do it, she could do it too.”

4. You aren’t good enough…

All of sudden he pokes at all of the things you do wrong and you have no idea what his problem is. He can’t cheat if he loves you or he thinks that you are good to him. So he makes himself believe that you aren’t good enough for him and that’s why he had to turn to someone else. In reality, you are more than good enough.

5. I can do my own laundry…

At first, you might think he’s being sweet for helping you out. Unfortunately, he’s doing it so he can hide his soiled pants, perfume smell or some other evidence of his liaison with his lady friend.

6. I have to stay after to catch up on work…

All of a sudden he has more work than he knows what to do with and he can’t come home when he normally does. It’s because he’s not really at work, instead he’s meeting with his girlfriend without worry that you’ll catch him.
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When Your Man Is Caught…

7. I still love you and want to be with you…

He says he loves you and wants to be with you; yet, he strayed and told someone else the same thing. It’s because he wasn’t having the affair because he didn’t love you anymore, he had it because he was disillusioned from reality. When reality hit, he finally realized what he had to lose…you.

8. I didn’t want to hurt you…

He’s right, when he went out to have the affair, he wasn’t thinking, “I am going to sleep with this other woman because I want to hurt her so incredibly bad.” Instead, he did it for his own selfish reasons without giving any thought to how it would hurt you.

9. I don’t want to lose you…

In his last attempt to salvage any type of relationship with you, he may blurt out that he doesn’t want to lose you. You might think, “What did you think would happen when you chose to Cheat on me?” Again, he never tied sleeping with someone else and losing you together. This may be a complete shock to him that you are actually leaving.

10. She means nothing to me…

She might not mean anything to him or he’s lying. Usually, Men who have affairs may not have wanted to get involved emotionally, but after sleeping with them multiple times, feelings start to develop. So, in most cases, he’s lying that she means nothing to him, what he really means to say is that he doesn’t want her over you.

If you are already in a bad relationship and your man begins to say things like these, sadly he may be cheating on you. On the other hand if you are in a great relationship and your man says some of these things (like staying after work, I can do my laundry, etc) hopefully it is the truth and he isn’t cheating on you.  If you catch him saying these things and you find out he is cheating on you it’s probably a good time to leave the relationship and realize how much better you can do without him.

7 Reasons Why Men Leave …

Reasons Why Men Leave can be puzzling! A guy can be all over you one second and the next, he’s out the door. Guys are questionable sometimes, but below, I’m going to detail out the top 7 reasons why men leave their girlfriends and what goes on in their heads! After all, you would think, there’s gotta be some substantial reasons why men leave right?
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1. Cheating

I hate to break it to you, but sometimes, one of the reasons why men leave is because they are cheating on you. I’m not saying every guy cheats, nor am I saying that this is one of the top reasons why men leave, but it does happen. If you suspect that your man is cheating, bring it up to him, talk to him about it and see what happens.
2. Dishonesty

A man likes to know that he can trust his girlfriend. The second that something goes amiss or he suspects dishonesty, it can create a riff. Being dishonest with your man can be over something little or something big. For example, lying about your age is no different than lying about your past. If you’re honest with your man, it’ll be ten times better for your relationship!
3. Jealousy

If you’re insecure about your guy leaving you and you’re constantly trying to make him jealous to prove that he likes you more – it could be one of the reasons he leaves you. Guys like to feel secure in their relationship and if a girl is constantly boiling up jealous feelings, it can make a lot of tension. So ladies, chill out on the jealousy and just be secure in your relationship!
4. Indifference

Typically, when a guy actually enters into a relationship and things get serious, he constantly is seeking his girlfriend’s approval. If you’re constantly indifferent and don’t get excited when he is, it could mean that he is on his way out the door. Remember, a guy has a really sensitive ego, so make sure that you give in sometimes and mirror his moods!
5. Constant Nagging

Nagging in a relationship is going to happen. It’s one thing to nag though and another to constantly nag about everything. The Better Half and I have this discussion all the time. Ladies, if he’s doing or not doing something that you need, talk to him about it in a calm way, don’t nag him about it constantly.
6. Negativity

Bad days happen to everyone. I had one recently that was just horrific! If you are constantly having bad days though and are constantly negative, it might be time to stop taking it out on your man and to take some much needed girl time!
7. She’s Unappreciative

Finally, if your man is feeling ignored, if he is feeling that he isn’t appreciated, it’s definitely one of the top reasons for him to leave. Men like to know that their women love them and that they are appreciated! So ladies, show ‘em some love!

There are tons of reasons why men leave, but these are the top 7. If you have a feeling that your man might be looking for a reason to leave, take a look at this list and see if these are any of the reasons! Do you have any other reasons why men leave to add to the list? Did I miss any?

7 Things Men Want in Women …

What men want in women is simple: they Want honest, reliable and confident women! It’s not all about the looks anymore ladies, a guy wants someone that he can talk to and that he can plan on spending the rest of his life with! Below, I’ve got the top 7 what men want in women things, so you can keep tabs on what your potential new boyfriend might be looking for! Remember, what are you looking for in a guy? You might be surprised by what Men want in Women that doesn’t revolve around looks!

1. Stability

A man likes a girl that is stable, a girl that can not only commit to plans, but one that is willing to make them. What men want in women is similar to what their mothers are and stability typically brings them back to their childhood. So ladies, does that match up with your need/want of a man that’s table?

2. Shared Interests

You don’t want to stay with a guy that doesn’t have at least some of the common ground with you right? It’s the same for a guy! What men want in women all revolves around what they like to do. You wouldn’t want to be with someone that is constantly wanting to go out to the club if you just want to stay in right? It’s the same for a guy!

3. Surprises

Believe it or not, guys actually like to be surprised girls. They like the anticipation and they like a girl who is willing give them a surprise once in a while. This is absolutely one of the top ‘what men want in women‘ things! So – pull out the flowers and try to woo your man!

4. Ability to Impress

This actually goes hand in hand with the surprises. A guy is looking for a girl that knows how to impress him. This is not just a girl that can impress him with surprising him, but also with her wit, sense of humor (which we’ll get to later!) and even a bit of sarcasm! So ladies, what a man wants in a woman is be able to hold her own and to be a little sassy!

5. Confidence

I’m sure that you’ve heard the ‘confidence is key’ line before right? Well, it’s actually true! Guys understand that we are sensitive creatures and that we are insecure sometimes, but confidence is definitely one of the most attractive features to a guy. So, before approaching that hottie at the bar, give yourself a little pep talk and stroll on over there like you own the joint!

6. Sense of Humor

Ladies, you’ve got to learn to take a joke! It’s a known fact that guys actually look for a girl that knows how to let loose and that has a really good sense of humor. After all, who would Want someone that is serious all the time and doesn’t joke back? So girls, lighten up a bit and give his sarcasm right back to him!

7. Trustful

Finally, what a man wants in a woman all revolves around trust. Remember, you don’t want a relationship that is going to be based on lies, you want a man you can trust too right? That’s all a guy is looking for. He wants a girl that he can trust his life with as well as all of his secrets and confessions!
Now that you know exactly what a man wants in a woman, what do you think ladies? I know all of us have those qualities, we just have to highlight them! So – the next time you are on a date, showcase how confident you are or how awesome your sense of humor is! Do you think that I missed any ‘what a man wants in a woman’ items? Fellas out there, what do you look for in a lady? Share!

7 Reasons Why Women Are Attracted to Rich Men …

Rich Men are some of the most attractive men in the world aren’t they? Ladies, do you think that they are attractive just for their money though? Well, I’ve got the scoop on the top 7 reasons why rich men are awesome – not just because of their money! After all, you wouldn’t want to be considered a gold digger for going after just guys that are rich!

1. Style

When it comes to rich men, don’t they have the best style in the world? Not only do they cloak themselves in labels, but they actually take care of everything from their hair down to their nails. For me, if a guy is well-groomed, that’s a done deal!

2. Motivated

If you are part of the rich men society, you didn’t get there by not being motivated. Rich guys are super attractive because they have a drive that a lot of men lack. Not only are they motivated, but they typically run their own businesses or have a career that is incredibly motivational.

3. Confidence

Confidence is definitely a way to a woman’s heart and guys that have money are typically some of the most confident men in the world! They walk differently, act differently and know themselves very well. Confidence is attractive guys, take notes!

4. Spontaneous

Not all guys can afford to fly to Paris or to London on a whim for a dinner date, but one of the major reasons why Women are attract to rich men is because they are spontaneous like this. A rich guy will hop into a plane just to have a real Italian dinner in Italy. Guys, take not, just because you don’t have the funds to do this, bring your girlfriend flowers sometimes or even just spring a date night on her to be spontaneous!

5. Generous

Rich men are some of the most generous men in the world (most of the time). Not only do they typically give to charities, but they are willing to donate their time by volunteering. When a man does things like donate their time or money, it really shows what type of personality they have and what their core morals are!

6. Wise

If a guy is rich, he probably knows what he’s doing with money right? Typically, rich men are some of the wisest men around. Not only can they advise you about investing, but they can teach you about budgets and how to keep your funds in check! How great is that?

7. Exciting

Finally ladies, the main reason why rich men are attractive is because they are exciting. They know how to have a good time and they take advantage of it! They have the time and the funds to be established and know how to take their time with things.
Even though money is nice, there are is so much more to rich men than just their money. These are just the top 7 reasons why rich men are attractive to Women, what are some of the other reasons ladies? Come on, share your opinions, did I miss any?

10 Things Women Do That Men Don’t Understand …

There are tons of things women do that men just don’t get right? I mean, we’re unique and different creatures and for a guy, it can be super confusing! Well guys, don’t worry, I’ve got the guide to the top 10 things women do that you just don’t understand. Hopefully, after reading this, you’ll understand some of the things women do a little better!

1. Wear Stilettos

Yes, they kill our feet, yes we complain about them a lot, but really – they are fashionable! This is definitely one of the top things women do that men don’t understand. It’s all about the fashion guys, that’s the only reason we wear shoes that kill our feet!

2. Bathroom Packs

Okay, I know it might seem weird to want to go to the bathroom together, but it’s actually fun! We talk to each other all throughout our bathroom experience and we can even point out makeup flaws that we might not have seen. Women like to go to the bathroom together, it’s probably something you’ll never understand!

3. Why It Takes Us So Long to Get Ready

Women are people that like to look good all of the time. Even when we’re just getting up, where is the first place that we head to: the bathroom to look in the mirror. If we say that we’re gonna be ready by 8:00pm, count on about 8:30pm. It takes a while to become the beautiful girls that you see all of the time, give us a break!

4. Shopping

A girl and shopping is like a guy and tools. Shopping is one of the things women do that men don’t understand but truthfully, it’s similar to a guy loving his tools. We go shopping for clothes, for shoes, for hair accessories to make ourselves look good – guys, why do you need so many tools?

5. Bath Time

So I am one of the lucky girls that has clawfoot tub, so you can understand why I love soaking it up in my tub right? Guys, a girl and her bath time is like a guy and his football time. We use the bath time to rejuvenate ourselves and to come out feeling super refreshed and squeaky clean!

6. Girl Talk

I’m sorry guys, this is totally one of the things that women do that you’ll never understand. You won’t get why we share all of our secrets with our girlfriends rather than our boyfriend or why we need to talk on the phone for hours. It’s just a girl thing, that’s all I’m gonna say!

7. Waxing

Yes, we as girls put ourselves through quite a lot for beauty don’t we? Waxing is one of them. Personally, I hate getting my eyebrows waxed, but I’d rather do that than have a uni-brow. Maybe you guys should take a lesson out of our book and see about getting your eyebrows waxed, it could be an improvement!

8. Over Thinking

This is absolutely one of the things women do that is just natural. We over think everything. You say that you are fine, we are trying to find the meaning of what ‘fine’ is and why you are ‘just’ fine and not great. It’s not a flaw we have, but it’s just something that comes naturally!

9. The Need to Plan

We, as women, like to be organized. We like to know what we are doing from one hour to the next. Right now, I know that I am going to go shopping later and already, I am making my list. It’s a compulsion that most women have, so just play along okay?

10. Makeup

Finally, the last thing women do that men just don’t get is makeup. Makeup is – well, it’s in our nature! We constantly feel like we have a lot to live up to and makeup is a way we cope with it. Plus, I couldn’t live without my eyeliner bringing out my beautiful green eyes!
So guys, there you have it! The top 10 list of things women do that might make you crazy, but at least you understand them a little better right? Don’t worry, there are tons of other things women do that might make you insane, but just know, there is reasoning behind it! So guys, what other things women do that you don’t understand? Leave a comment below!

9 Things Not to Say Via Text Message …

text Messaging Tips are sometimes hard to take. With this generation constantly shooting off countless numbers of texts a day, it can be hard to keep track of what you are writing – and to who. This year is the first year that I’ve started to text heavily and I have to say, there aren’t a whole lot of text messaging tips out there for what not to say in a text. Well ladies, don’t worry, I’ve come up with the top 9 text messaging tips to help you when you’re starting to break into texting!

1. Breaking up

One of the first text messaging tips that I’m going to talk about is breaking up. DO NOT – yes, I repeat, do not break up Via text message. Breaking up is such a personal thing and texting your boy/girlfriend to break up with them is so not personal and it’s pretty insulting.

2. Coming Out

Love is love, it doesn’t matter who you love but if you are thinking about coming out to your friends, family – mom and dad, don’t do it through a text message! This is one of the text messaging tips that I really believe in fully – coming out is a conversation face-to-face, not through a few words on a screen. So bite the bullet and call your parents over for brunch if you are going to come out to them.

3. I’m Pregnant

Whether this is good or bad news, this is one of the text messaging tips that you should totally follow: don’t tell your parents you’re pregnant over text! If it is bad news, they are probably going to be upset and if it’s good news, they will want to share in the good news with you. So pick up the phone or go see them!

4. Serious Health Issues

While text messaging might be an easy way to get the word out, if it is about some serious health issues or someone got in a car accident – call instead of text. While I love to text my mom to let her know I’m okay, I couldn’t imagine texting her that I was in the hospital. Whenever health is concerned and it could be bad news, make sure you’re picking up the phone!

5. Engagement Announcement

If you just got engaged – why hold in the excitement and just shoot off a text message? Call your friends, call your family and let them know! I promise, they’ll want to share in the excitement with you and know all of the little details that you just can’t send Via text message.

6. Trash-Talking

Oh-em-gee, this one got me in trouble. So one time, I was trash-talking to a friend of mine via text message. Instead of sending it to my BFF I was trash talking to, I actually sent it to the friend I was talking about. Sound familiar? Just keep the trash talking to a phone call and you’ll never have to cover up your tracks again!

7. Bad News

This is one of the text messaging tips that goes hand-in-hand with not texting serious health issues, however – it should go for all bad news. So you found out you didn’t get the job, you found out you got fired, found out that your dog died … don’t text it, call someone! I promise, it’ll be better all around and you’ll feel better in no time at all.

8. You’re Fired

Maybe you are the boss and you utilize texting to keep your assistant in line. If that sounds like you, don’t use text messages to fire them. If they are truly fired for a good reason, sit them down and explain it to them – it’ll be so much more personal!

9. Drunk Texting

Finally, let’s move onto the most popular – drunk texting! I’ve been the victim of so many drunk texts from my BFF and I have to say … sometimes it’s horrible! Half the time, I can’t understand what the text message means and the other half, he doesn’t respond back because he’s passed out. As a victim of constant drunk texting … just don’t do it! Texting is awesome – don’t get me wrong, I text all the time, but I do follow most of these text messaging tips. Texting shouldn’t be annoying, it should be used as a quick and easy way to communicate when you’re bored and looking for a friend to entertain you. What text messaging tips do y’all use? Do you have any I missed?

12 Things Men Like in Women More Than Good Looks …

Things Men Like in Women often have nothing to do with Looks, bra size or any of the standard things we think men fall for. In fact, although physical appearance is the first thing they notice (don’t we all?), when it comes to settling down it often comes in last and counts the least. Believe it or not, there are at least 12 completely non-physical things men like in women and I’m pretty sure your boyfriend could list many more and confirm that your gorgeous physique, beautiful eyes and soft lips are not the only things that made him fall head over heels for you! Interested to learn more about those other things men like in women? Well, read carefully because every man would love to be with a woman who is…

1. A Good Listener

Most men appreciate women who are able to just listen – no “ I told you so” lines, no lectures, tips or comments regarding what you would do if you were in his place. You know… just sitting, listening (and I mean REALLY listening)… just showing that you care. Oh, and that involves being patient as well, understanding that most men need to “process” their problems before they can talk about them and learning to say, “Okay, baby, whenever you want to talk about it – I’m here for you”.

2. Spontaneous

Being able to “go with the flow” is one of the things men like in women the most and I must admit I’m still not

Signs Of A Good Man

So, you have met a man whom you really like, whose company you enjoy and you two share many things in common. It has been a couple of months you are dating exclusively. You have reached a point where you have to make a decision whether this man is for keeps i.e. he is someone you would become serious and get into a relationship with or not. So, how do you make such an important decision of your life? What are some signs of a good man? Scroll down for some useful relationship advice on the same.
Telltale Signs of a Good Man
Any man who is well-groomed, handsome and has a good sense of humor may seem attractive, at least initially. But remember one thing, meeting somebody for a few hours in the evening and staying with somebody everyday, day in and day out are completely different ball games. So, when you are considering living in or settling down in marriage with a man, there are a lot more things that you should watch out for.
Compromising
Compromising, yup, a man has to be compromising. It is not necessary that you and your man’s tastes, likes, hobbies etc. will be the same. However, the man in your life should be someone who appreciates these differences. Someone who is ready to compromise so that the relationship can run smoothly. If the man you are currently with always wants things to go his way i.e. the decision regarding which restaurant to go to or which movie to watch or what to do in general is solely taken by him and he does not give much value to your likes and dislikes, it means that he will not prove to be much compromising in the future as well. If this is the case, then an important relationship advice for women in such a situation is to rethink about your relationship.
Caring and Respecting
For those of you wondering, “what are the signs of a good man?”, the answer lies in his caring and respectful attitude towards his woman. A good way to tell whether a man cares and respects for his woman is that such a man will never hurt his woman’s feelings. He will be loyal, caring and faithful. He will take interest in what his woman does and will give her his undivided attention. So, if you see that your man can’t see even a drop of tear in your eyes, if your man is extremely sensitive towards you and your feelings, if he understands your spoken as well as unspoken words, then he is sure for keeps!
Intelligent and Responsible
If you are thinking, what to look for in a man, intelligence and being responsible are two traits which are a must have in any prospective partner. A man should be intelligent and responsible enough to take care of himself and his family. A man should know where he is going professionally. He should know how to control his actions, words and anger. If you see these qualities in your man, you are on the right track!
Optimistic and Cheerful
You never know what life may have in store for you in the future. There may be many ups and downs, however well you plan your future. This makes it very important that the man you are in relationship with, should have an even temperament, a positive outlook and a cheerful disposition to meet any eventuality in life. So, if you find your man dealing with his problems in the best possible manner, without feeling bogged down or miserable, if you see that he never gives up, he is the right one for you!
These are some signs of a good man. If you think that your man is loving, faithful, caring, in short has a heart and is also intelligent, confident and responsible, you have found your match! One last tip before I sign off – when it comes to choosing the man you intend to spend your life with, take your own sweet time. Do not rush things, get to know him inside out, after all you deserve no less!

101 Things Your Man Would Do If He Loves You

We all know that men and women are different! One of major differences is that most men show their affection through their actions not their words. Quite the opposite, most women show their affection through their words. This major difference creates many issues for women who fail to understand men’s nature and mentality when it comes to showing their affection. Below is a list of examples how men show their love and affection.

1. He includes in his future plans.
2. He doesn’t spend money on luxury items, because he thinks they are too expensive. But he would buy a luxury item for you on very special occasion.
3. He won’t just go watch TV after dinner, he will take out the trash and wash dishes for you.
4. He won’t force you to have sex when you told him you are exhausted from a hard day’s work.
5. He doesn’t mind you using and browsing his computer because he has nothing to hide.
6. He encourages you to do anything that pleases you.
7. When you are having a mood swing, he will try to comfort and pamper you.
8. He is willing to go to a market and buy tampons for you when it is necessary.
9. He thinks you are cute when you are acting and being hysterical.
10. He is willing to watch a chick flick with you even he hates it with passion.
11. When you told him you are feeling insecure, he will take it very seriously and take actions.
12. He hugs you all the time.
13. He kisses you all the time.
14. When he is having sex with you, it feels like making love.
15. He feels sorry when he works overtime because he cannot be with you.
16. He tells you “I love you” every single day.
17. Everything he does, he does it for you.
18. When you are alone you don’t feel lonely, because you know his heart is always with you.
19. When you are upset, he truly cares about why.
20. If he missed you call, he will call you back as soon as he can.
21. He doesn’t bother you about your past, he lets the past be in the past.
22. When he has a business trip, he wants to take you with him.
23. He remembers everything you said.
24. You look taller than him when you wear high heels, but he doesn’t mind.
25. He doesn’t let you do all the house cleaning, he is more than willing to help.
26. When you are sick, he will stay by your side.
27. When there is an earthquake he will hold you tight in his arms.
28. He thinks you look pretty without makeup.
29. When you and him are talking heart to heart, he cries happy tears.
30. He gets jealous whenever you are talking to other men.
31. When you and him are fighting, he always apologize first.
32. He doesn’t mind when you try to give him a hickie on his chest.
33. He gives you compliments all the time.
34. He is willing to spend his leisure time to fix your computer for you.
35. When you did something wrong, he tries his best to let it go.
36. When there is a long vacation, he will include you in his vacation plan.
37. He brings you favorite flowers.
38. He shows you his vulnerable side that his friends never knew about.
39. He has your pictures in his cell phone
40. When he is sick, he won’t let you drink from his glass.
41. He remembers your favorite song and movie.
42. He calls you by that cute nickname that he gave you.
43. No matter what happens, he is always on your side.
44. When someone is rude to you, he will stand up and defend you.
45. He is willing to go grocery shopping with you, even you would take more than 40 minutes browsing.
46. He is willing to go the mall with you, even you would take hours to find a dress.
47. He surprises you with a pair of Celine Dion concert tickets, even he hates her music with passion.
48. He surprises you with a necklace that you always wanted.
49. Whenever he is having his favorite dessert, he shares it with you.
50. He gets upset when you sleep late, because he worries about your heath more than anything.
51. He always holds your hand in public.
52. He is willing to carry your purse when your arms are sore, even he thinks it is embarrassing.
53. He doesn’t complain when you gained weight.
54. When you arrive late on your date, he still smiles.
55. He will doesn’t yell at you.
56. He never lays his hands on you during arguments.
57. He compliments you in front of his friends.
58. When he is going to hang out with his friends, he invites you to come along.
59. When you ask him over and over about his feelings, he doesn’t get impatient.
60. When you are being paranoid towards his friendship with his female friends, he is willing to explain.
61. When you play chess, he always let you win on purpose.
62. He always tries his best to keep his promises.
63. When he went out with his friends, he will always pack some snacks for you.
64. He doesn’t turn his cell phone on silent when he is with you.
65. When you cook for him, he will finish everything.
66. He is willing to watch Sex and City with you, even he hates with passion.
67. He wears the ring you bought for him everyday.
68. He spoils you because he loves you.
69. When he doesn’t like the way you dress, he will remind you but he never criticizes you.
70. He never forgets your birthday.
71. He never forgets your anniversary.
72. He will always give you something on Christmas and Valentine.
73. When you are jealous, he is willing to take time to explain.
74. When you and him have an argument, he is willing to back down even if he was right.
75. He tells that you are irreplaceable.
76. When you are promoted at work, he is happier than you are.
77. He never pressurize you to do anything you don’t want to do.
78. He puts your feelings before his own.
79. When he is exhausted, he is still willing to listen to your feelings.
80. When there is an issue, he is willing to communicate.
81. If something comes up and he has to cancel the date, he will make it up to you.
82. He doesn’t get angry when you missed his call.
83. When his mother doesn’t like you, he defends you.
84. When his mother is being rude to you, he will try to defend you.
85. He downloads your favorite music for you.
86. When you cancel your date to go out with your girlfriends, he will understand.
87. He cuddles you to sleep.
88. He kisses you good morning and good night.
89. He let you know that your happiness is his happiness.
90. When you did something wrong, if he forgives you, he will never mention it again.
91. He is willing to show he is in a relationship on his Facebook.
92. He doesn’t mind to let know his Facebook account password.
93. He won’t let you carry any heavy object, he will carry it for you.
94. When he goes clubbing, he will not go without you.
95. When he goes out drinking, he wants you to come along.
96. He will always treat you with respect. Even during arguments.
97. He will call you on his trip to check if you are doing fine, and to let you know he is ok.
98. He doesn’t mind when you ask about his work schedule.
99. When something wonderful happens, you are the first person he wants to share the good news.
100. He showers you with love, tenderness, and patience.
101. He is willing to go out his way to please you.

7 Ways to Be a Better Girlfriend …

How do you be a better girlfriend? We all strive to be the best in everything we do, especially when it comes to relationships. We all know what we want from a man and what qualities we seek in a boyfriend, but are we being good girlfriends? Being a good girlfriend involves much more than making a killer meatloaf or running errands for him. I’ve got some of the best tips for Ways on how to be a BETTER girlfriend ladies! Read on for my top 7 ways to be a better girlfriend and watch your man melt.

1. Be An Independent Woman

Male or female, no one wants to feel smothered or feel like your whole life revolves around them. Have your own schedule and spend time with friends doing what you love. Don’t drastically change yourself or your lifestyle because you’re part of a couple now, you are still you and that’s who he fell for!

2. Have Some R-E-S-P-E-C-T

Talking down to your man, embarrassing him, or having a my-way-or-the-highway attitude does not convey respect. To be a better girlfriend, listen to him, don’t cause scenes, and allow him to be himself. If you have a list of things that you’d like to change about him, he’s probably not right for you.

3. Have Trust

For one to be in a solid relationship and be a better girlfriend, you must have trust. Even if you had bad experiences in the past, don’t assume your boyfriend is like your ex. If you are constantly suspicious or lie about anything, it will only create problems.

4. Don’t Be Naggy

I hate it when men say their girlfriend nags them incessantly but nagging someone can be problematic. To be a better girlfriend, avoid arguing just for the sake of arguing and choose your battles wisely. Men and women communicate differently and hassling your man will not read well with him. If something is really bothering you, take him aside to address the issue and come up with solutions together.

5. Be Friendly

Despite how you feel about his friends or family, to be a better girlfriend you should be sociable and polite. You don’t have to do any arse-kissing, but your man will appreciate your efforts in making nice and getting to know his friends and fam as they are important to him.

6. Show Your Love

You can be a good girlfriend and tell him how much you love him, but to be a better girlfriend, show him! Get your head out of the gutter this doesn’t involve trench coats and flashing; I’m talking about showing your love through love notes, bringing him and his friends pizza on football nights, or showing that you are proud to be with him.

7. You Bring Out His Best

If you find someone who can bring out your best or make you want to be a BETTER person, he is a keeper. To be a better girlfriend, bring out the best in your man. There are subtle and obvious Ways to do this, but if you have his best interest in mind, he will want to be his best for you.
In order to be a better girlfriend, it does take some finessing and planning, but it can be done. Learning to be a better girlfriend isn’t hard, just keep in mind my top 7 tips for to be a better girlfriend. Always remember the golden rule and treat your boyfriend with the same love and respect you want for yourself and the rest will come naturally. So ladies, how do you show your man that you love him? How are you a good girlfriend? Share!

10 Tips to Get a Guy to Text You Back …

There you sit, clutching your phone, waiting on that little noise to indicate you have a new text message. You wait and wait, but so far, no messages have come. What should you do? How do you get him to text you? If this describes your current situation, here are 10 tips to get a guy to text you back.

1. Play Hard to Get

I know this is difficult, but it works. When he does text you, don’t immediately respond. Wait a few hours (you CAN do it!), and then casually write him back.

2. Don’t Bombard Him

If your guy has sent you a text, answer it and then play it cool. It is not a good idea to fire off three or four texts to him continuously one after another. The goal is to make him want to talk/text with you.

3. Have Other Interests

When you do talk/text with him, make sure you have things to talk about in your life. You don’t want him to think that he is all that you think about and that you don’t have a life outside of him. Be interesting!

4. Know What Interests Him

It helps to have a conversation if you understand a little about the things that he is into. Does he like guitar? Try learning a few things about it too so that you can chat with him the next time he brings it up.

5. Don’t make false promises

Do NOT promise to do things with him that you do not mean. Although some girls use these types of promises for the ‘shock value’ it gives totally the wrong impression.

6. Don’t send any photos you will regret later

As badly as you want to hear from him, do NOT send him any pictures of you that you wouldn’t want shown to multiple people. Trust me, he will not keep them to himself. I promise.

7. Ask for his opinion/advice

Guys love to problem solve. If there is a situation you’re struggling with, ask for his help. He will jump at the opportunity to ‘fix it’.

8. Don’t appear needy

If you haven’t heard from him for a while, don’t make demands or questions such as “where were you?,” “why did you take so long to text back,” etc. Remember, you want him to think you have a life outside of him. Guys hate neediness.

9. Make other plans

If you haven’t heard back from your guy, don’t sit around waiting on him. Get moving and make other plans! That way if he does eventually text you and ask you to hang out, he will see that you aren’t going to sit around and wait on him.

10. Realize your worth

You are far too valuable to sit around and wait on a guy if he isn’t going to respond with the same care and attention that you give to him. Don’t let yourself be stuck at home wishing for him to respond if he isn’t ever going to. Move on and find someone who will treat you like the princess you are!
Texting can be a valuable tool to get to know someone, to send messages quickly, and to share information. However, it can also be an indicator of how someone feels about you. Text wisely and don’t invest too much of yourself waiting to hear back from one guy. Get out there and live life while you’re waiting to hear from someone and don’t miss out on opportunities because you’re sitting and waiting on a text message. These 10 tips to get a guy to text you back will work. It’s not because they are magic, but it’s because these steps transform you into a confident woman who doesn’t need a man. That is the quality that most guys find absolutely unforgettable! How do you get a guy to text you back?