Showing posts with label everyday. Show all posts
Showing posts with label everyday. Show all posts

Thursday, May 24, 2012

SUCH A FREAK !

I WANNA GET OFF !!!!! I can't stand the old me, the procrastinate me, I hate myself being that way. I'm chasing these lessons, but still can't find the scheduled time to finish them up. goddddddddddddddddd

Tuesday, May 22, 2012

Feel So YOUNG by Homework

SUPER HOMEWORK CONFERENCE IS ON. ladies and gentlemen, keep in calm. we're facing crisis for sure and heroes are just that weak no one could help the human anymore instead themselves. the hope is Y.O.U. thanks. so, let's skip the speech and send everybody to hot growing-up process as hell.

Saturday, May 19, 2012

Promise Set

I love my family deep inside my heart. yet I haven't done anything proud for my family. Till that day come, I can't look at my father's eyes cause I'll lock myself in the room and cry. My dad easily forgets things, and hardly hear something. but when he's talking about his children, He gives the best shot ! That's what I adore so much. We are getting older, time is ticking and taking the age. I'm stuck. I feel so down for I can't solve my sadness. I want to make my dad proud. I believe my dad will see that. this is my promise.

Thursday, April 19, 2012

I AM !

I AM JEALOUSS X_X
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In fact, I am not whom he sees the only one. I don't know. I wanna ask him if he thinks of me the only one like I do but I'll seem so weak. hell to this feeling. freak out !!

wanna throw this feeling away but I just can't bear with it. I fall for him. and I know I'm not interested enough to get his attention though he said he likes me. thanks for liking me. yahh......

Wednesday, April 18, 2012

Lovaa




Found at Beemp3.com

I think that the clouds like the laughter around us
Wanting to feel the warmth, they're softly sinking down
Until they cover the streets just like a dreamland
And right above us, they part so that I see through
Stars falling down, and I fall for you.
:3 :B :D

Saturday, April 14, 2012

It hurts badly

It's just been a couple of months since we began chatting and got to know each other well. Now I have to stop thinking of him, I don't want to make him feel bad cause of me. I have to stop this before I have this feeling get deeper and deeper. It'll hurt I know, CLEARLY he's gonna leave, and I have to prepare, I have to start to let go now. I wanna know what he feels, hope he feels alright,hope he doesn't care of me. he'll always be there and I'll always be here. see, blog?

I deactivated our communication tool. I target myself it should work ! through this way, we'll have our own clear way. if now, we don't. i feel so blur. sometimes I think whether I did is right or wrong, I keep going on it hoping everything's gonna be alright. I am a mess. nobody likes me, I hope. better like this, always think myself unwanted and work hard. thanks my friend. thank you. I can guarantee your feeling will change once you see me, cause you're not this type of man who likes this type of girl, just know it. you will love this someone who is beautiful, perfect feminine elegant woman that you can bring in every place with pride. which is not me, or yet. so, I know I'm pessimistic girl, I'm just not with you, won't be.

see me clearly here, honestly tell me what you see from your deepest heart. i wanna know what you feel. i'm this sad when I keep thinking that I'm nothing to you.

Tuesday, April 10, 2012

Everyday

Do you know? everyday I listen to your favorite song you told me. wait for you. Sounds so silly huh. yes, I must be feeling crazy, for you whom i want to be with only exist in my dream.

Friday, March 30, 2012

sad

i'm sad of being procastinated. regret will pick me up one day !

Tuesday, March 27, 2012

Sunday, March 25, 2012

Love is Beautiful

Glee Cast - On My Own .mp3
Found at bee mp3 search engine
On my own
Pretending he's beside me
All alone I walk with him 'til morning
Without him, I feel his arms around me
And when I lose my way, I close my eyes and he has found me
In the rain The pavement shines like silver
All the lights are misty in the river In the darkness, the trees are full of starlight
And all I see is him and me forever and forever
And I know it's only in my mind
That I'm talking to myself and not to him
And although I know that he is blind Still
I say there's a way for us
I love him But when the night is over
He is gone The river's just a river
Without him, the world around me changes
The trees are bare and everywhere the streets are full of strangers
I love him But every day
I'm learning All my life I've only been pretending
Without me, his world will go on turning
The world is full of happiness that I have never known
I love him
I love him
I love him...
But only on my own...

Thursday, March 22, 2012

7 Simple but Unbelievably Effective Homemade Acne Cleansers …

7 Simple but Unbelievably Effective Homemade Acne Cleansers …
Home Acne Treatments not only work well, but they save money. They can also be less abrasive than marketed Cleansers. Let’s be real, fighting Acne is a pain, but these 7 Homemade acne cleansers are safe for your skin, easy on the wallet, and just overall awesome. The good thing about home acne treatments is they often use natural products instead of harsh chemicals found in over-the-counter or prescription acne treatments, making them ideal for sensitive skin. So, if you want to learn to make your own home acne treatments, keep reading!


1. Olive Oil


I know it seems crazy to put oil on your already oily acne prone skin. Olive oil has been used for many years as a cleanser and works wonders as home acne treatment. For best results pour a small amount of olive oil onto your hands and massage deeply into the skin. Allow the oil to sit for at least 3 minutes, then place a steamy towel over the face. The Steam will help pull impurities out of your pores. After the towel cools use it to wipe away the remaining oil.

2. Castor Oil


Castor oil works the same way as olive oil for a home acne cleanser. The reason why these oils work as facial cleansers is because skin naturally contains oil. Many of the cleanser we buy are branded as “oil-free.” water doesn’t dissolve oil, oil dissolves oil. When the oils from the skin are removed, the body creates even more oil creating oily skin, or it may react by not creating any oil and thus leaving your skin dry. It makes sense to use oil to help gently remove the dirt and oil from your face to help clear acne.

3. Baking Soda


Baking soda works two ways as an at home acne treatment. First it exfoliates the skin by buffing away dead skin and opening up clogged pores. Another way is the alkaline substance of baking soda kills off bacteria in the skin that causes acne. To use baking soda, wet your face and then create a paste with baking soda and water in your hand. Massage the paste into your face gently for one minute. Finish by rinsing with cool water and patting dry.

4. Oatmeal


Oatmeal is not only good for your body, it does wonders for you skin too. Oatmeal is naturally high in vitamins which makes it perfect to reduce redness and inflammation caused by acne. Create your own at acne treatment by soaking ? a cup of oatmeal in 1 cup of boiling water. After the oatmeal mixture has cooled, apply it to your face and gently massage the skin. After one to two minutes rinse off the oatmeal.

5. Honey


Honey is another terrific at home acne treatment. Honey contains antibacterial properties and can help hydrate the skin. You can create a Simple honey mask just by massaging natural honey into the skin and allowing it to sit for 15 to 30 minutes. Rinse off with warm water. One way to enjoy this mask is to apply it before soaking in a warm bath after a long day at work for a little rest and relaxation.

6. Steaming


Steam opens the pores and allows the impurities to escape. Boil a pot of water and then let it cool for a few minutes. Hang your face over the cooled pot of water with a towel draped over your head to trap the steam in. After 10 minutes you can remove the towel and dry the steam off your face.

7. Apple Cider Vinegar


Apple cider vinegar has been used as an at home cure for many different things over the years. Because apple cider vinegar is unprocessed and contains many natural properties it works wonders as an at home Acne treatment. To use, mix one part apple cider vinegar with 3 parts water. Dab the mixture onto the face with a cotton ball. Using home acne treatments is so much better for your skin. And as you can see, there are many ways to treat acne naturally at home. Let me know if you tried any of these 7 home acne treatments. Also, do you have recipes for any other home acne treatments you’d like to share?

10 Negative Things You Should Stop Saying …

10 Negative Things You Should Stop Saying …
Negative Things You Should Stop Saying run the gamut between different subjects. It’s no secret that there are negative things you should stop saying. We all have them! Little things we say to ourselves or to others only serve to hinder us rather than help us out. And it’s not because you hate yourself! Most people don’t even realize the effect their negative comments have. So that’s why I’m writing this list of negative things you should stop saying! Instead, replace them with positive, encouraging and uplifting comments. And yes, you can direct them to yourself! Hey, we all need a boost every now and then, right? And who better to give it to you than your own lovely self! So here are 10 negative things you should stop saying!

1. “I’m Such a Failure.”

Telling yourself that you are a failure will result in you believing this and causing you to fail when you may have actually had a chance of success. Maybe you haven’t necessarily succeeded at everything in your life, but that doesn’t make you a complete failure. So tell yourself that you can do it and then believe it! You will be surprised at your rate of success when you believe in yourself.

2. “Look How Fat I Am.”

One of the negative things you should stop saying centers around your weight. Many times, women perceive themselves to be fatter than they really are. Don’t dwell on it! Instead, make healthy eating choices and get active. Men are more attracted to confident girls who feel comfortable in their own skin so stop saying how fat you are and instead mention the progress that you’ve made toward your ideal weight goal!

3. “You Never……”

When you find yourself in the middle of a disagreement with someone you love, refrain from starting sentences with these two accusing words. That’s a something negative you should stop saying! When you point fingers at someone, they are more likely to get defensive. Instead of saying “You never take out the trash when I ask you to,” say “I feel like you don’t care to help me out with the chores.” This puts the accusatory light completely in the middle of you both instead of right on one of you.

4. “It’s too Stressful to Handle.”

Yes, things may be stressful, but that doesn’t mean you can’t handle it. Telling yourself it’s too stressful to handle is one of the negative things you should stop saying. Instead, tell yourself that you are feeling challenged, but you will find a way out of it. This way you are admitting that it’s overwhelming, but you aren’t giving up!

5. “I’m Soooo Very Sorry.”

Yes, when you step on someone’s toe you should apologize, but there’s no need to OVER-apologize! Many women find themselves doing this and it’s not necessary. You decrease your self-worth by continuing to feel bad for some little flub. Go easy on yourself and let it go!

6. “I’m Such a Pig.”

One of the negative things you should stop saying is calling yourself a little piggy. So what if you had two brownies, a milkshake and a piece of pizza? It’s the weekend! You deserve to indulge, so do it! And even if you eat what you want every time, there’s no need to beat yourself up. Instead, tell yourself that the treat was yummy and let it go.

7. “It’s too Expensive.”

There are many families out there on a budget. I’ll admit to being on one myself! It’s good to be on a budget, it helps to save money you might otherwise spend on unnecessary things. Instead of feeling sorry that you can’t buy it, tell yourself that you are CHOOSING not to buy it. Then step back and work extra hard to save enough money or re-work your budget to afford it!

8. “I’ll Never Make It.”

Admitting defeat before the finish line guarantees you won’t make it. This is one of the negative things you should stop saying! Tell yourself that you CAN do it and you WILL make it! The more you believe in yourself, the more you will accomplish. And it will feel so good in the end!

9. “Why Can’t You Just Understand?”

When you say this to a friend or relative in the middle of a heated conversation, it doesn’t do you any good. It just prompts your debate partner to shoot the same question right back at you! Instead, try this approach. In a gentle tone, state your case and then say, “I hope you can understand things from my point of view. I realize we have different opinions, but maybe we can agree to disagree on this one.” Your friend will realize you have the upper hand!

10. “Leave Me Alone.”

This is one of the negative things you should stop saying! By using this phrase, you end up pushing away those who love you and are trying to help you. Then you are stuck keeping feelings and emotions bottled up. It’s best to talk it out so next time try and be open and talk through the situation.
This list of 10 negative things you should stop saying will help you if you will heed it! I’m sure we are all guilty of saying these phrases at one time or another, but it’s a habit we all need to strive to kick! By paying heed to these negative things you should stop saying, you increase your chances of success tenfold. Do you agree with my list of 10 negative things you should stop saying? Please comment below and let me know!

7 Ways to Thank Your Teacher …

7 Ways to Thank Your Teacher …
how to thank a teacher? Well, the first idea is obvious, so I’ll make it my last: just say thank you! But for the Teacher who’s gone above and beyond, and been a big influence on you or your child, there are so many other ways to show your appreciation and gratitude. Here are 7 ways to thank a teacher.


1. Recommend them

Sure, it’s nice to tell your friends and family and all of Facebook how much you adore your teacher, but surely it will mean a lot more to tell their principal, dean, or other administrators. Better yet, put it in writing, so when it comes time for a performance review, your favorite teacher will have proof of just how good they are.

2. Remember them

My own favorite teachers were all three English teaches (Mrs. Doran, Warren, and Ilges), and I think the best way I can thank them is by holding dear their memories, and working in a way that honors them. Whenever I finish a writing project, I review it with a critical eye, and ask myself what they would think, and if they would approve.

3. Send a gift

Who doesn’t love to receive a thank-you card or gift? Of course, that includes teachers! It doesn’t have to be a pricey gift, just something small and sentimental, or just a card itself. Do they really need another Teacher ornament or apple paperweight? No, but I’m sure each one they have means a lot to them.

4. Write a note

Like I mentioned above, sometimes the best way to thank a teacher is to give a gift or a card, or better yet, a personally hand-written note. Just write down your gratitude and appreciation, and either mail the note, or deliver it to the school.

5. Dedicate your work

If you become an artist or a writer, why not thank the teacher who inspired you by dedicating your work to that teacher? I plan to dedicate a book to my high school English teachers, once I write one that’s worthy of them.

6. StoryCorps

On September 19, storycorps kicked off the National teachers initiative, recording the stories of teachers and their students in 40-minute interviews. The interviews will be archived with other StoryCorps interviews at the Library of Congress. Find out more, including how to participate, at storycorps.org.

7. Say thank you!

Aside from all of the above things, obviously, the best way to thank a Teacher is to just say thank you! A big hug is nice, too, wouldn’t you agree?
With so many ways to thank a teacher, there’s no reason to delay! Get out there with this list, and say thank you! (Mrs. Doran, if you’re reading this: thank you!) If you’re a teacher, which of these ways would you like to be thanked? Or is there something else we students and ex-students can do to show our love? Do tell!

7 Music Videos You Will Love …

7 Music Videos You Will Love …
Music Videos are a very big part of our culture as humans. I’m sure that not everyone will agree with me on that, but when you stop to think about it, it’s true! There can be so much emotion and passion in one music video. Music alone is powerful, but when you add faces and stories behind it you get a whole new aspect on the song. And thats what music videos do! I’ve made a list of my personal favorite music videos, and I’m sure that you will love them as much as I do!

I am proud to stand and say that I’m an american citizen and my prayer is that every American can say that! This is one of my favorite music videos because it is powerful and has a strong meaning behind it! Every country in this world has beauty and is different in its own way but America is the land of opportunity. I encourage each American citizen to watch this music video!

2. Who Are You When I’m Not Looking

We all love a good love song, and this is one song that you can relate to as a woman. Whether you are the women who burned the toast, bit off your nails, or soaked in the tub after a long hard day, this song can speak to you on a personal level. I believe this music video shows that men look for those imperfect qualities in us, and love us for them.

3. Mama’s Song

 

I love this song so much that I actually had it at my wedding! This is one of the few music videos that can make me cry nearly every time I see it. Just watch it and you will know exactly what I mean, especially if you have a close relationship with your mother.

4. I Pray For You

 

This music video has a humorous take on breaking up, but in reality we can all relate! I know I’ve had my fair share of moments that I have wanted to dedicate this song to “friends” i’ve had over the years. Watch it for a good laugh if nothing more!

5. You’re Gonna Miss This

No matter how anxious, ready or exciting it is to move out on your own and constantly be looking to the future, this music video is a great reminder to remember to enjoy each phase of your life as it comes. Time goes by so quickly, and it’s not something you can get back so enjoy it while it’s on your side. Warning: Keep tissues handy on this one! Don’t you love music videos that make you cry?

6. American Soldier

 

This music video is very personal and real to me in more ways than one. My husband is in the military, and these are realities that we deal with every day. However, nothing can make you more prouder than to serve your country! This music video is a tender, yet harsh reminder of the good, bad and ugly that comes with serving one’s country, and the pride that goes with it!

7. Back to December

 

I’m sure that everyone has that moment in their life they wish they could go back to and do differently. I think that’s what this music video is all about. Regrets and wishes, second chances that never happened. It’s a sad song, but sung with closure, which is something that some of us never do get, making it one of my favorite music videos.
These Music Videos are just a few of MY personal favorites, but I know you will love them too! Music videos can help you to better understand a songs meaning while bringing you to a personal level with the singer and songwriter. What are some of your own favorite music videos?

9 Best and Extremely Charming Movie Soundtracks That I Love …

9 Best and Extremely Charming Movie Soundtracks That I Love …
Movie Soundtracks are so much fun to listen to! Whether I am blasting my favorite movie soundtracks in the car or on my iPod, movie soundtracks always get me in an awesome mood! So that, of course, inspired a post. Below are some of my all-time favorite movie soundtracks!

1. Empire Records

Why wouldn’t Empire Records be on there? The movie is awesome, the soundtrack is even better and it’s a constant in my CD player in my car! Have you checked out this soundtrack yet? Do it! It’s so worth it!

2. The Wedding Singer

I love anything Adam Sandler. Not only is he friggin’ awesome, but this soundtrack? It’s incredible! If you’ve seen the movie and love Adam Sandler, this is totally one of the best movie soundtracks for you!

3. Armageddon

I cried my eyes out at this movie – and I relive it every single time I listen to the movie soundtracks. It’s got sounds like ‘I Don’t Want to Miss a Thing’ and ‘Starseed’ on it – both of which are incredible! It’s a true tribute to Aerosmith ladies, give it a try!

4. Juno

The Juno soundtrack is actually really folky. Typically, I’m not the hugest fan of folky music, but bands like The Kinks, The Velvet Underground and kimya dawson have totally changed my mind! This is totally one of the few movie soundtracks that I listen to at least four times a week.

5. All Over the Guy

All Over the Guy is actually a great movie. It’s a romantic comedy that, if you like Dan Bucatinsky, you’ll love! It’s funny, quirky and has some kick butt music on the movie soundtracks. Artists like Peter Stuart and Matthew Sweet really make this soundtrack one of my favorites.

6. American Beauty

I think that American Beauty is one of those movies that is absolutely beautiful. It is a visual masterpiece – but the music is awesome too. It has artists from all over the place and the songs are incredible!

7. Nick & Norah’s Infinite Playlist

You know from the name of the movie that the soundtrack is gonna be awesome. Whether you are looking for bands like We Are Scientists all the way to Bishop Allen, this soundtrack has it all! I love the mix, mingle and the fact that I can dance to it!

8. 8 Mile

Eminem is totally my idol. I love everything about the guy (including that he is from my home state!), but his music is the best. 8 Mile was the only movie he’s been in to date and the soundtrack kicks butt. It’s got rap, original songs and some spice to it. BUY IT, it’s totally worth the money!

9. 17 Again

I absolutely love Zac Efron guys. He’s my guilty pleasure and his voice? Makes me melt! So it makes sense that I’d choose a movie soundtrack from a movie he’s in. This soundtrack has everything from Young MC all the way to Santigold! It’s truly a great mix of music!
These are just a few of my favorite movie soundtracks. I totally wouldn’t be able to live without any of these movie soundtracks! What about you ladies, how about you share your guilty pleasures with me? Come on, what movie soundtracks do you fall for every time?

7 Things Men Want in Women …

7 Things Men Want in Women …
What men want in women is simple: they Want honest, reliable and confident women! It’s not all about the looks anymore ladies, a guy wants someone that he can talk to and that he can plan on spending the rest of his life with! Below, I’ve got the top 7 what men want in women things, so you can keep tabs on what your potential new boyfriend might be looking for! Remember, what are you looking for in a guy? You might be surprised by what Men want in Women that doesn’t revolve around looks!


1. Stability

A man likes a girl that is stable, a girl that can not only commit to plans, but one that is willing to make them. What men want in women is similar to what their mothers are and stability typically brings them back to their childhood. So ladies, does that match up with your need/want of a man that’s table?

2. Shared Interests

You don’t want to stay with a guy that doesn’t have at least some of the common ground with you right? It’s the same for a guy! What men want in women all revolves around what they like to do. You wouldn’t want to be with someone that is constantly wanting to go out to the club if you just want to stay in right? It’s the same for a guy!

3. Surprises

Believe it or not, guys actually like to be surprised girls. They like the anticipation and they like a girl who is willing give them a surprise once in a while. This is absolutely one of the top ‘what men want in women‘ things! So – pull out the flowers and try to woo your man!

4. Ability to Impress

This actually goes hand in hand with the surprises. A guy is looking for a girl that knows how to impress him. This is not just a girl that can impress him with surprising him, but also with her wit, sense of humor (which we’ll get to later!) and even a bit of sarcasm! So ladies, what a man wants in a woman is be able to hold her own and to be a little sassy!

5. Confidence

I’m sure that you’ve heard the ‘confidence is key’ line before right? Well, it’s actually true! Guys understand that we are sensitive creatures and that we are insecure sometimes, but confidence is definitely one of the most attractive features to a guy. So, before approaching that hottie at the bar, give yourself a little pep talk and stroll on over there like you own the joint!

6. Sense of Humor

Ladies, you’ve got to learn to take a joke! It’s a known fact that guys actually look for a girl that knows how to let loose and that has a really good sense of humor. After all, who would Want someone that is serious all the time and doesn’t joke back? So girls, lighten up a bit and give his sarcasm right back to him!

7. Trustful

Finally, what a man wants in a woman all revolves around trust. Remember, you don’t want a relationship that is going to be based on lies, you want a man you can trust too right? That’s all a guy is looking for. He wants a girl that he can trust his life with as well as all of his secrets and confessions!
Now that you know exactly what a man wants in a woman, what do you think ladies? I know all of us have those qualities, we just have to highlight them! So – the next time you are on a date, showcase how confident you are or how awesome your sense of humor is! Do you think that I missed any ‘what a man wants in a woman’ items? Fellas out there, what do you look for in a lady? Share!

9 Tips on How to Become Smarter …

9 Tips on How to Become Smarter …
Many people wonder how to become smart. They want to increase their brain power to impress people, like the cute guy they see at the coffee shop, or their boss in hopes of a promotion. That’s great; I fully support anyone that wants to become Smarter. It’s really not that hard once you know where to start. Fortunately, there are lots of great ways to get smarter.

1. Watch Less Television

Television is the quickest way to let your brain turn to absolute mush. While there can be a wealth of knowledge available on television, there are other ways to get that information. Now please don’t misunderstand, I am not saying you have to completely get rid of TV to become smart, just cut down on the amount of time you spend watching mindlessly.

2. Exercise

As if you really needed another reason to exercise, right? Seriously, besides all the other health and beauty benefits of exercise it will also help you get smarter. You see, working out makes you more productive and alert. You will have better concentration and energy.

3. Read

Reading is key to learning. Instead of just reading trashy romance novels and gossip rags, also spend a little time reading more challenging information. Choose a classic novel, an old Shakespearean play or a book on a subject you are interested in.

4. Get More Sleep

We all need more sleep. Unfortunately this doesn’t mean that to become smarter, we need to hit the snooze 3 or 4 times every morning. It’s better to get more sleep by heading to bed a little earlier. Getting more sleep will help you concentrate and take in more information throughout the day.

5. Reflect

We all need time to process the events of our day, week, or month. Taking that time regularly to really ponder over the recent events in your life will give you a deeper perceptive on things. It may also help clear your conscious. Naturally, it can also help you get Smarter.

6. Back to School

One obvious way to become smart is to head back to school. Whether you need to start on your bachelor’s degree or finish up your master’s degree, going to college gives you so much knowledge.

7. Current Events

Keeping up with current events and understand the things going on around the world and in your own country gives you something to talk about with other people. Really understand the subject, even if you don’t agree with others on the topic shows people just how smart you are.

8. Build Vocabulary

Words are fun. The Oxford English Dictionary has over 200,000 words. However, most of our vocabularies are far more limited. To build your vocabulary and learn new words you can look words in the dictionary or start using a vocabulary calendar that gives you a new word each day. Learn the word and its meaning and try to use it correctly in conversation.

9. Healthy Food

Healthy foods boost brain function. Eating a good balanced diet, not skipping meals, and making the right food choice will help you become smarter and healthier.
As you can see, many of the things we need to do to become psychically health will also help us become smarter. Becoming smart isn’t just about cramming your brain with a bunch of trivia facts it’s about increasing brain power and concentration. What are some of the things you have done to become smart?

8 Wise Tips on How to Avoid Overspending …

8 Wise Tips on How to Avoid Overspending …
Avoiding overspending has never been more important than in the current economic crisis. Of course, being smart with money matters at any time, but considering the lack of job security that´s now common, it´s essential to Avoid Overspending and conserve your resources. So here are some wise tips to help you avoid overspending …

1. Essentials First

Avoiding overspending starts with the basics. What are the essential living costs that you have to pay? Before you spend on frivolous items, make sure that you have your rent and bills covered. Once that´s taken care of, you know how much remains and that you won´t have to worry about paying the bills because you´ve overspent.

2. Cash Is King

If you want to avoid overspending when you go shopping, don´t take your credit cards ´just in case´. If you do, it´s all too tempting to pull them out when you see something you like, or spend more in the supermarket because you have your cards. So take a fixed amount of cash, then you won´t be tempted to spend more.

3. Financial Exam

Keep a spending diary, and look at where your money is actually going. You might be unpleasantly surprised at how much you spend on takeaway coffees or nights out. Carrying out a close examination of your finances and identifying spending patterns will help you stop wasting money.

4. Budget

If you know you´ll have a big expense coming up, like getting your car repaired, budget for it. Put the money aside, or save a regular amount, so that when the time comes you haven´t spent all your money on something else, and can easily pay for what you need.

5. Think Twice

Yes, we´ve all done it – gone into a store, seen something we loved, and bought it because it might not be there next time. But be honest – can you really not live without it? Walking away and thinking about whether you really like it – and can afford it – may well stop you spending money that you can´t afford on something you don´t need.

6. Smart Sales

Remember that something is not a bargain just because it´s reduced in price. In this winter´s sales, I bought one thing I needed, and one thing I loved. Neither were expensive, and I´ve already got a lot of use out of them. I wasn´t tempted by anything else, so I didn´t waste money on buying things ´just because they were cheap´.

7. Online Is Out

Online shopping is undoubtedly a great convenience, but it´s also a terrible temptation to overspend. With just a click, you can add another item to your virtual basket, plus you reason that you might as well order more because you´re paying the postage costs anyway. So be very careful with online shopping.

8. What´s in The Cupboard?

Before buying new clothes or other items, whether large or small, check whether you already have something like it. Yes, the ´Six Black Skirts´ syndrome. Occasionally it makes sense to stock up on things you know you´ll use, if they´re at a bargain price, but in general beware of buying more of the same.
It´s really vital to avoid overspending, because this financial crisis is not going to be over in a hurry. Besides, spending beyond one´s means was one of the reasons why the problems started. So be smart with your money, spend wisely and save where you can. What´s the best method you´ve found for avoiding Overspending?

7 Tips on How to Be a Lady …

7 Tips on How to Be a Lady …
How to be a Lady? This question has plagued our grandmothers and great-grandmothers, but many of us don’t give this a second thought… until we have a special event to attend, or until we discover that holly golightly in “breakfast at tiffany’s” is exactly who we want to be when we grow up. Well, my darling, if you’re wondering how to be a lady, I can help! I’ve been spending a lot of time being a lady for more than a decade, and I have loads of Tips to share… here are 7 tips on how to be a lady.


1. Don’t Sleep around


Don’t get me wrong. Sex is fun, and there’s nothing wrong with experimenting and seeing if the shoe fits before you buy it. But love, don’t sleep around. It’s not lady-like, and it’s not safe besides.

2. Don’t Smoke


Smoking used to be considered very lady-like and glamorous, but now it’s known to be unhealthy, dangerous, and smelly. If you don’t smoke, don’t start, and if you do smoke, quit. There’s something ladylike about persistence, too!

3. Don’t over-drink


Are you getting a trend here? Over-doing anything isn’t lady-like, and that includes over-drinking, which may make you less inhibited, and more likely to smoke or sleep around. It also makes you look sloppy, which I’ll talk more about below.

4. Don’t Be a Slob


Ladies aren’t slobs. It’s that simple. Dress neatly and keep your car and your house tidy. I’m not saying you and your house and car have to be spotless, but tidy, not sloppy.

5. Don’t Curse (too Much)


I am a true fan of the f-bomb, but I know it’s not Lady-like to curse too much, so I try to save it for when I know it’s perfectly appropriate. Most other times, I use other words, either mild curses or simply other words that aren’t naughty.

6. Dress The Part


Ladies don’t wear pajama pants in public. Ladies don’t wear stained or dirty or ill-fitting clothes in public. Often, ladies wear skirts and dresses, modest clothes that suit their own styles and their figures. Jeans and Dress pants are okay, of course, as long as they’re not too snug. Again, think holly golightly. What would Holly wear?

7. Be Polite


Ladies are also very polite. Yes, we have tempers, and it’s appropriate to be angry, but it’s never acceptable to be rude, to anyone, ever. Be polite to everyone, even when they don’t deserve it. This is one way how to be a Lady people tend to forget, but it’s so important! Now that you’ve read my list of how to be a lady, do you feel more lady-like already? Which of these ways to be a lady do you like best? Or is there another tip you’d like to share? Please do!

7 Smart Study Tips …

7 Smart Study Tips …
These study tips are mainly aimed at college or university students, but can also be used to help children, or by anyone studying through distance learning. Why is there a need for Study techniques? It´s not something that comes naturally to most people, but they want to get the best result. So here are some Smart Tips for studying to help you …

1. Plan Ahead

Books are expensive to buy. So what do you do when hundreds of people have the same required reading? There´s a simple way – get organised, and read popular course books in advance. This worked for me when I was studying a course that the entire year was following, and it’s one of the best study tips you’ll come by.

2. Set Study Times

An excellent study tip is to treat it as if it were a job, with a regular timetable. Set yourself fixed hours to work in, and don´t allow yourself to be distracted by anything during that time. So block off some time in your diary to sit down and work hard. You´ll be more productive, and be able to switch off when your ´working hours´ are finished.

3. Avoid Panic

Unless you´re one of those rare people who works best under pressure, trying to rush work before a deadline means that you´ll most likely end up turning in work below standard. Reading lists and essay deadlines are generally given out well in advance, so plan your work, get cracking on your essays early and avoid a last-minute panic.

4. Sufficient Sleep

For a student, it´s tempting to go out even when you have an early class. Try not to do this too often, as sleep is essential for resting both brain and body. You´re more likely to work efficiently if you´re adequately rested and not fuelled by gallons of coffee. Some of the best Tips for studying have to do with when you’re not studying!

5. Know Your Study Style

One study tip that´s often overlooked is to know how you work and learn best. Let´s look at languages, for example. I learn best through visual means – so if I want to remember something, I need to see it written down. Others learn more easily through hearing the words. Find your study style and use it to Study most efficiently.

6. Environment

Having a suitable environment to study in is essential if you want to work to the best of your ability. Most of us need quiet surroundings in order to be able to concentrate. Find a quiet corner of the library or an empty room, and if at home with your family around, take advantage of the times when the kids are in bed or out.

7. Study Groups

My final study tip is to join or form a study group. The advantage of getting together with fellow students is that you can motivate each other, and help others clarify points that they don´t understand. Forming part of a group also means that you dedicate fixed times to work.
Using these study tips will help you to work to the best of your ability. Most students are aiming to improve their career prospects and so want to achieve the best result possible. If you’re combining your studies with work then you need to use your time even more effectively; besides, studying is expensive, which offers further incentive to do as well as you can. What study techniques have you found effective?